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This person can exist because I have met her in bits and peices. I have dated dollops of her, I am good friends with fractions of her, I have proposed to portions of her, and even once made a significant subset of her my significant other. She is passionate and romantic but not at the expense of her intellect. She's sexy and wild but never inappropriate: she'll go to the fetish club and the black tie soirée and not be out of place or uncomforable at either - there's even a good chance she'll pull them both off in the same dress. Friday she'll go to the pub and drink a pints and talk about philosophy and comic books. Saturday morning she'll shop for antiques and speak of laquers and varnishes, but Saturday night she'll down drinks that could peel paint and dance like she's kicking someone's ass in boots that make her ten feet tall and while wearing plasitc hair. She knows the bartender that freepours. She has one foot in the 19th century and the other in the 21st. Sunday she'll do the Times crossword waiting for Sunday brunch and spend the afternoon sipping coffee and listening to jazz while she makes art that I am envious of but not competative with. She'd rather have her name mentioned in a textbook than have a baby. She won't want to move in with me but she'll want to get an apartment in the same building. She'll be able to put on a black dress that makes you want to bite your hand like Squiggy and dance in a swishy way that makes you shut your eyes at work on a Wednesday afternoon and smile a private smile and makes the pile of crap on your desk go away just for a minute while you remember how she looked. And when work is out of control and you need to bring some of it home and work late, she'll sneak up behind you and kiss your neck while you are working and put a coffee beside you. She'll call you on your shit but not make you feel like shit while doing it. She'll go walking in the park with you and make fun of dogs. She's a city girl who'd rather go to a night-club than take a walk in the woods as a general rule, but she'll love the ocean and the mountians and visiting places like Duncan and Tofino. She's challenging, but rarely frustrating. She won't leave and argument unfinished and refuses to go to bed mad. When she's tired she curls up on the couch with the cats to read or watch TV and wants you with her.

I don't think she is impossible. Just very, very difficult to find.

*sigh*

Date: 2002-09-08 01:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] strang3-gir1.livejournal.com
That is beautiful...
I'm sure she does exist out there...

Date: 2002-09-08 01:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] heythats-mybike.livejournal.com
I'd settle for a girl who embodies half of those things..and even that is hard to find...but then again maybe we aren't meant to find her she is meant to find us

Date: 2002-09-08 10:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
In your case, I know for a *fact* she can exist: The person who came closest to all this, the one I married, just happens to be a lesbian now...

Of course I'm sure she has changed over the last few years and have no idea what she is like now. She certainly doesn't club anymore because I never run into her.

Date: 2002-09-08 10:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] heythats-mybike.livejournal.com
the one aspect you forgot to mention was..she's single..cause yeah I can find a girl exactly like that but she is always always taken..

(S)He who hesitates is lost.

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Damn Rights!

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Re: Damn Rights!

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Tractor Beams

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Re: Tractor Beams

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I second the motion

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Date: 2002-09-08 01:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deckards-sixth.livejournal.com
Hi. I'm your new friend, Audrey, and you just described 98% of who I am.

*beam*

Hmmm...

Date: 2002-09-08 10:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
(With one eyebrow raised) What am I to say to that?

Re: Hmmm...

Date: 2002-09-08 10:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deckards-sixth.livejournal.com
Um...you could ask me about the other 2%.

2%

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Re: 2%

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Date: 2002-09-08 07:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-majesty337.livejournal.com
It would be nice to find a boy like that, as well.

Date: 2002-09-08 10:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
One that looks good in a black dress? :p

Date: 2002-09-08 11:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] uberbabe.livejournal.com
as long as he doesn't look better than me in it... I've dated a few of those...

It would be nice if he could look good in a suit... particularly his birthday suit.

Re:

Date: 2002-09-08 06:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-majesty337.livejournal.com
Hahahahahahah no, more like a nice black suit! =P

Date: 2002-09-08 10:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seymour-glass.livejournal.com
that person already exists, because you believe in her...keep your eyes and heart open and you shall meet...you know it's funny i've never really had a 'type' that i was looking for...instead i look for those things i admire in everyone...and i find something beautiful in a great deal of people...of course the degree of beauty varies, but i try and appreciate whatever that beauty may be...but to me the key has always been finding someone i enjoy spending my time with, someone i can talk with and laugh with...someone who challenges me and teaches me something about myself i didn't already know...someone who is fiery and passionate, but also balanced...someone who is able to believe in themselves (sometimes that takes time) but recognizes and respects who i am...someone who feels comfortable in most situations, even if it's somewhere they wouldn't normally ever be...someone who appreciates the positive aspects of a relationship, but is independent and has their own life too...but then again i'm pretty lucky i've found someone very special already who fits many of the things i appreciate in others...

Types

Date: 2002-09-08 11:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
I never really thought I had a "type" either until other people started pointing out my patterns. Turns out I am in fact a sucker for certain things.

Re: Types

Date: 2002-09-08 11:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] heythats-mybike.livejournal.com
its funny cause the people I date tend to embody certain things that I hate..such as

doesn't like mushrooms
Is blonde (although hair color can be changed)
doesn't like to dance a lot
doesn't appreciate my poetry
won't let me woo her
isn't spontaneous
is a jealous person
likes to sleep until noon and waste half the day
freaks out cause I check my email/LJ 10x a day

so why do I fall for these people! Maybe being in therapy right now is a good thing lol

My List

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"Sex and the City" quote

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Re: "Sex and the City" quote

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Sex and the City

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Deal

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Re: Deal

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Date: 2002-09-08 07:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evilyn13.livejournal.com
hahaa... do i know her???

Re:

Date: 2002-09-08 08:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seymour-glass.livejournal.com
you may have met her...she shows up from time to time when you are around...

Date: 2002-09-08 01:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mediavictim.livejournal.com
Gentlemen - We have the technology .. we can build her (que the theme to 6 million dollar man
.or..Wierd Science)




Science!

Date: 2002-09-08 01:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
How about Rachel from "Blade Runner"?

"I should be enough."

Date: 2002-09-08 01:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mediavictim.livejournal.com
Yeah but then you wouldn't really be seeing her - you would be having a relationship with Dr Tyrells neices' memories. She would really have any experiences to share.

Plus being followed around by a hispanic psychotic Origami enthusist intent on killing her - it would just be the same olo' stalker jealous ex boyfriend all over again.

Plus - it would kind of suck being in bed together on your 4 year anniversary and she drops dead because of her longevity limitations.


Racheal is cute.. but at least with Pris it's all up front and honest. I'm horny , you're a pleasure model.. and in the morning I will call you a cab. End of story.

Ah, but...

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Re: Ah, but...

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(no subject)

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"Do you like our owl?"

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Re: "Do you like our owl?"

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Re: "Do you like our owl?"

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(no subject)

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"Nobody lives forever"

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(no subject)

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Interesting

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(no subject)

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Simple Answer

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Date: 2002-09-08 03:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] valerian.livejournal.com
:)

Hmmmmm..........

Hey, baby, what's your sign?

Date: 2002-09-08 07:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
Just because I want it doesn't mean I'm ready for it right now. Remember:

Image

Re: Hey, baby, what's your sign?

Date: 2002-09-08 08:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] valerian.livejournal.com
LOL!
Honey, I think that sign applies to both of us!

Date: 2002-09-09 11:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mediavictim.livejournal.com
'..Insead of the sappy, in-your-face BS in AI'

Ok now you're comparing Fillet Mignon to rat shit. Ai Sucked
Ai butchered Kupriks original intention, Speilberg spewed 'family' all over that movie and made us hate the characters we were supposed to admire. AI was future fluff
It had darker more interesting message - but it completely smothered those points to death when Speilberg got ahold of it.
AI had no message. AI was so sickeningly sweet we all need insulin injections from now on to survive.

Unfortunately you're right about movies being dummed down - and hey sometimes you need cinematic fluff and a good popcorn movie to go to - other times you want to be mentally stimulated.

Future Movies I liked
-Blade Runner
-Gattaca
-Clockwork Orange
-Minority Report
-Metropolis

Movies that Didn't make the cut
-AI
-Bicentenial Man

Although - I also find a lot of directors who want to make a movie with such complex plotlines that they forget to tell their audience whats going on.

Case in point

Date: 2002-09-09 11:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mbarrick.livejournal.com
> I also find a lot of directors who want to make a movie with such complex plotlines that they forget to tell their audience whats going on.

Dune.

Love David Lynch, and admittedly the 4½ hour version is moderately followable, but cut down to 2½ hours I can see why he didn't want his name on it.

Date: 2002-09-09 12:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mediavictim.livejournal.com
Croneburgs 'Naked Lunch" also suffered from the director forgetting his audience.

I have (and love) this movie - but to remotely understand it you have to have a lot of insider information (ie know the book, or Know the history of Burroughs) or watch it more than once - wich given the graphic visual and assualt to the senses - not many people would be willing to sit through it more than once.

And I once rented this movie 'The two Jakes' - unfortunately you HAD to have watched 'Chinatown' first to understand any of it.
Sequals (in my opinion) shuld at least try to be self contained.




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